Advice?

[TheWill]

I have a problem with my roommate, some of you already know about this, and a few have met him. Its coming down to the end of the year and he thinks that he is still gonna live with me next semester. The thing about this guy is that he lives in my home town, and has taken upon himself to go and tell people what i have been doing in auburn. The question is should i give him the boot, or try and figure out an alternative??

[VR4Rob]

That sucks man, but I would say get rid of him. Having to put up with a shitty roommate for X amount of years more than you have to is no good for anyone.

[TheWill]

yeah hes a bastard.. he has no friends down here. Doesnt care about making any friends. To quote him i dont want to have to work to make friends, they should just want to hang out with me. he is lazy as hell as well. I dont know.. I am just worried that he is gonna go back and start trying to spread more shit about me back home

[Jon|Hazan]

no way. Bad roomate, out the door. That sort of compromise always leads to trouble! Find an alternative solution..

[WiggiE]

give him the boot.....sounds like he'll spread shit about you whether you live with him or not....

[TheWill]

give him the boot.....sounds like he'll spread shit about you whether you live with him or not....


True true.. thanks for the advice.

[Drew]

give him the boot.....sounds like he'll spread shit about you whether you live with him or not....

Yeah what he said.

And as for the things he's saying about you, if you don't give him any ill activities or habits to spread word about then you shouldn't have to worry about anything as far as that goes unless he's just fabricating lies.

[Obike]

Show him your foot, and then impale his ass on it when you kick him out...

I had a pretty shitty roommate situation last year, don't suffer with it longer than need be.

[Adam]

If you don't care about being ammicable, just find a new roommate sign a new lease and say whoops... :headbang:

[TheWill]

yeah he isnt even on the lease at all so he cant really fight it if i do ask him to move out

[Jess]

I will kick his ass for you.

But seriously, theres nothing quite as effective as a mono y mono talk. Let him know your concerns and aggravations and see where that goes. He'll either apologize or get pissed. On the downside, if he's a triflin ho, that'll make him talk even more smack back home.

Having a roomate with no friends can be a good thing. Doesnt have a bunch of loud asses keeping you up all night making a mess everywhere.

[TheWill]

yeah but him having no friends means that he sits on his ass from 12-12mwf, and all day on tuesday and thursday. And that is driving me insane.. but i know that i can change the way he acts

[phillyd]

yeah but him having no friends means that he sits on his ass from 12-12mwf, and all day on tuesday and thursday. And that is driving me insane.. but i know that i can change the way he acts


Couple things should prolly happen:
1. He needs to know that you know he's talking shizit, you business is your's and he need to leave it alone.

2. You need not worry about what he does on his own time, useless it is directly effecting you. Example: if he watch TV, or play video games for 50 hours a week...then thats his own thing, just do your own thing and ignore the 'tard.

3. If you want a different roommate regardless, just tell him you are ready to switch things up, expand your hoe-rizons, and get a new roomy.

4. Man, roommates are PITA, just plan on dealing with a few quirks no matter who you live with. Chicks too.


Counsel Over. :wiggiesmo

[Grider]

Boot to the head.
No roomate is worth the bullshit unless they are giving you really good head at night. And then only if they are female and hott.

Seriously, living in shit is too stressfull. Get him out of there and let him go talk shit with the other homeless.

[Frosty_DUB]

Try to talk to him like a civilized adult. If he continues to be a dick, kick him out or move somewhere else.

I agree with drew that if you arent doing anything bad, you shouldnt have anything to worry about anyway.

[TheWill]

Thanks for the advice guys.. its been a crazy situation. We have gotten into two near physical fights since he moved in and it is all about him. I dont know.. i am mostly likely gonna give him the boot. Its just not worth living with this kid for 4 years.

[phillyd]

Thanks for the advice guys.. its been a crazy situation. We have gotten into two near physical fights since he moved in and it is all about him. I dont know.. i am mostly likely gonna give him the boot. Its just not worth living with this kid for 4 years.


If your gonna give 'em the boot, DO IT. :fuckoff:

[AccoRdINlySlo]

Thanks for the advice guys.. its been a crazy situation. We have gotten into two near physical fights since he moved in and it is all about him. I dont know.. i am mostly likely gonna give him the boot. Its just not worth living with this kid for 4 years.
If U almost got into 2 fights already, thats saying something right there. Give him the boot!! But listen to what Jess and see what happens.

[helo pilot]

just find a roomate like mike's and my roomate. he only sleeps here like one night a week, if that, and he's never here during the day.

[I want something fast]

Yeah and he is fun to hang out with when you do get to see him alone. Otherwise you can just jack his Internet from his computer and use it for your X-box....J/K ;)

Seriously though comming from personal experience and being right where you are now, tell him, that you want him to move out and that is it. When he asks why tell him that you know there have been some things said behind your back about you to other people at home, and that you don't wish to further agitate that situation. You can also pull the "I just don't think if we are to stay friends that we should live together...we are just to much alike" bit. Honestly I would just tell him that he is to be moved out at such and such a date, and if he has questions or concerns that he should have thought about that before he started spreading rumors. Tell him that you aren't getting along, and that you are tired of feeling irritated at him all the time and that should be sufficient. With the given attitude twords friends I should think he will either relize how he has been acting and that he is depressed, or he will get angry and just stop talking all together.

[TheWill]

If U almost got into 2 fights already, thats saying something right there. Give him the boot!! But listen to what Jess and see what happens.

yeah i dont know this kid has a crazy temper he will be sitting there one minute and then he will be on the phone with his mom or ex girlfriend and he just starts screaming at them and its sad that you can hear it outside the apartment.. kid needs help

[phillyd]

yeah i dont know this kid has a crazy temper he will be sitting there one minute and then he will be on the phone with his mom or ex girlfriend and he just starts screaming at them and its sad that you can hear it outside the apartment.. kid needs help

Abort Mission, I repeat Abort Mission, 95coupe do you copy?

[ActiveAero]

If he's not on the lease you essentially own him.


Make him your bitch or tell him to hit the road.